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NEW CUSTOMS:
Guru
Ram Das composed a hymn known as 'Lawan' in Suhi
Mohalla 4, page 773 of Guru Granth Sahib, and asked
his Sikhs to recite them to solemnize marriages. The
Sabad 'Lawan' embodies in itself a lesson for the
couple to develop true love for each other. In reality
this Sabad is for a human being to develop love for
the divine ridegroom.
The Guru composed the following Sabad to instruct
his Sikhs in the practice of their religion:
He who calleth himself a Sikh of the true Guru,
should rise early and meditate on God;
He should make an effort early in the morning,
bathe in the inner tank of nectar;
Repeat God's Name under Guru's instruction, and all
his sins and transgressions shall be erased;
At sunrise he should sing the Guru's hymns, and
whether sitting or standing meditate on God's Name;
The disciple who at every breath meditateth on God,
will be dear to the Guru; The Guru imparteth
instruction to that disciple to whom my Lord
bestows His grace;
The servant Nanak prayeth for the dust of the feet
of such a disciple of the Guru who himself repeateth
God's Name and causeth others to do so.
(Gauri Ki Var- Mohalla 4, p-305-6)
SELECTION OF GURUSHIP:
Sahari Mal, Guru's cousin from Lahore, invited the
Guru to grace his son's marriage. For some reason the
Guru could not go, but he asked his eldest son, Prithi
Chand to attend the marriage. Prithi Chand refused to
go. His refusal is attributed to possibly two motives.
It is said that he was incharge of the offerings that
were made to the Guru and was able to furtively set
aside much wealth for himself. If he had gone to
Lahore, this illicit gain might have fallen in
somebody else's hands. Secondly he thought that the
time was fast approaching for the selection of a
person to succeed his father as Guru and so he should
remain in Amritsar. Mahadev, the Guru's second son,
did not want to go because of his indifference to
worldly affairs. The third son, Arjan Dev agreed to
attend the marriage. He was instructed to stay on in
Lahore after the marriage to look after the affairs of
the Sikh Sangat of that place.
After some time he started feeling the pangs of
separation for his father and the Guru, and wrote
three letters, two of which were intercepted by his
elder brother, Prithi Chand. A letter marked '3',
reached the Guru and Arjan Dev was immediately
recalled from Lahore. On his return he told his father
that he had sent three letters. The truth came to
light and Prithi Chand was forced to produce the other
two letters. Thus Prithi Chand's actions were exposed.
Guru Ram Das embraced Arjan Dev, sent for five
paise and a coco-nut, and placed them before him. He
descending from his throne, seated him there before
the whole assembly of the Sikhs. Bhai Buddha affixed
the tilak of spiritual sovereignty to Arjan Dev's
forehead, and thus he was proclaimed as Guru Arjan
Dev. This appened in August, 1581.
Prithi Chand became so mad that he addressed his
father in abusive language. He told Bhai Buddha that
his father acted improperly in giving Guruship to his
younger brother. He vowed that he would remove Guru
Arjan and would seat himself on the Guru Gaddi
(throne). The Guru counselled him not to quarrel about
it, but Prithi Chand refused to submit and adopted an
attitude of open defiance.
Having nominated Guru Arjan Dev, Guru Ram Das left
for his old headquarters at Goindwal. After a few days
He left eft this world on the first of September,
1581. |